Love from others start with self-love and is true when it is unconditional.
I have a friend who is very spiritual. We were talking about love and relationships and he said that if he is interested in someone or loves someone and if this person does not love him back, he does not love this person anymore either. I am surprised about his point of view. What do you think about this?
I want to answer this question on different levels.
If we only love people
You will not forgive them as long as the focus is on them rather than on you.