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Saturday, 15 August 2015 15:43

Sexual Abuse - Podcast

How you use your own sexuality is your choice.  How you use the sexuality of others is abuse.

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Sunday, 26 July 2015 15:28

Sexual Abuse

 

Question:

 

Do you think that sexuality is a source of abuse in our society?

 



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Saturday, 07 March 2015 13:28

How Do I Prevent An Affair? - Podcast

An affair is a symptom of the problem you have to deal with in your relationship.

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Published in Love and Relationships
Saturday, 07 March 2015 09:15

How Do I Prevent An Affair?

Question:

I would like to get married one day and be happy.  I am not in a relationship at the moment. 

I have recently noticed many people around me who are all having affairs.  I am concerned that when I ever get married, my wife or I will have an affair, and that will break my heart. 

I expect my wife to be faithful to me, and I will definitely be faithful to her.  Am I unreasonable?

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Sunday, 22 February 2015 15:35

My Mother Is Having An Affair - Podcast

Don't judge the actions of others that you don't understand.  Rather observe, learn and decide what you want to apply in your life.  You may want to change your mind later based on your own experience.

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Sunday, 22 February 2015 15:23

My Mother Is Having An Affair

Question:

I am in my late teens.  A year ago I was at the airport with my mum, having just arrived from a long flight into this country.  My dad was not with us, because he could not get a visa.

At the airport I used my mum’s phone to send a text, when a text came in for her.  I opened her text and saw it was all about love, but not from my dad – from her college professor!  I did not say anything but I was shocked.  I thought that that was the end of it because he was still in our home country where my dad also was.

A few days later I heard her speak to him over the phone and realized he had also moved and was living close to me and my mum.  I heard them arrange to meet, but she never said anything about it.

I know they are meeting regularly, and I know my dad knows nothing about this.  Even if my dad does know, he cannot do anything because he still does not have a visa.

What shocks me most is that want my mum does is against our culture and religion, but it seems like she does not care. 

I don’t know what to do about this.

Published in Love and Relationships
Saturday, 17 January 2015 16:42

I Am In Love With My Boss - Podcast

Learn the difference between love and infatuation, and you will be able to get a balanced view of the person you claim to love.

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Published in Love and Relationships
Saturday, 17 January 2015 16:29

I Am In Love With My Boss

Question:

I am a medical doctor.  I report to another doctor who completed his studies a year before I completed mine.   While we were studying, he was allocated to be my mentor during his final year.  He criticized me a lot (and still does), but it helps me to improve and I didn’t mind. 

Since I have finished my studies I have been working with him on the same team in the hospital and we often put in long hours together.  He once said in a social conversation with colleagues that he has not found a female doctor who is his type, and that he would rather not date another doctor.   I know he is involved with an architect.

 

My problem is that I have feelings for him, and I find it more and more difficult to hide my feelings when I work with him.  How can I control my feelings when I am in his presence?

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Friday, 02 January 2015 12:08

What If I Lose My Secret Love? - Podcast

You are ready for a relationship when you are ready to face the fantasy as well as the nightmare.  Any relationship teaches us wisdom about ourselves.

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Published in Love and Relationships
Friday, 02 January 2015 11:49

What If I Lose My Secret Love?

Question:

I feel like I need to make a choice and I am scared because I don’t know what the outcome will be.  I may destroy everything I have.

I have had a very stressful life, but I am finally at peace with myself and I can now say I love myself – after much hard work.

I have met a man who is beautiful in every way.  I love him dearly, warts and all, and would love to be his wife and have his child one day.  I have known him for two years now.
I have two young children.  My daughter is aware of him, but my son knows nothing about him.  I have always kept him separate from my family, and he has never shown any interest in them.  Not even my closest friends know about him.  However, we love each other to bits and spend time together when we choose and enjoy every minute of it.

I have recently been fantasizing about living with him and having his child.  I don’t know how to discuss this with him, because I am afraid of losing him altogether.  What if he doesn’t want any changes?  What if I lose him altogether?

 What should I do?

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