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Are you planning to get married, and then you will focus on changing your spouse?

Or are you thinking about divorce, because your spouse did not live up to your expectations? 

Are you planning to get pregnant so that he can marry you and grow up?  

Or is the marriage not working and you think a baby is just the solution?  

Elsabe Smit will give you a sure-fire recipe for averting disaster.

Tune in to The Elsabe Smit Show on Sunday 2nd April at 4 pm GMT using this link: https://www.facebook.com/AskElsabeSmit/videos 

The show covers a range of topics related to the creation process, from becoming aware of your destiny, through shaping your thoughts and actions, to learning the wisdom from your experiences and practising forgiveness.

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If a friend does not respect your boundaries, they are not a friend.

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Published in Spiritual Development
Sunday, 01 November 2015 14:18

I Share My Marriage With A Parasite

 

Question:

 

I am 19 and have gone through a number of changes recently.  Within a year I graduated from high school, got my first home and got married. 

 

 

A few months ago my husband’s best friend moved in with us – only for a few weeks, but then the weeks turned into months.  Initially it worked out fine, but now things are getting totally out of hand.

 

We have a big TV in our house.  Recently this man decided to buy a projector, put it in the middle of the lounge floor, and put up a white sheet in the middle of my house.  He did not ask for permission, and when I asked him to take the stuff out of the way, he just ignored me.

 

He also bought an additional TV so that he and my husband could play games together, each using their own TV.  I just got ignored in all of this, as if I don’t exist.

 

My husband works day shifts and his friend works nights.  This friend decides when the air conditioning should be switched on during the day, and he takes control of the TV all day because he does not like my choice of shows.

 

Before this man moved in with us, we coped financially, but now we often overspend because just the food he eats cost more than the minimal rent he pays.

 

Our bills for internet use, phone and electricity have gone up.  He claims that he cannot pay more rent, but he spends cash on computer games, brand-new state-of-the-art TV sets and other gadgets that are taking over my house. 

 

I like to keep things neat and tidy, but it is impossible with this man making a mess all day and never cleaning up after himself.

 

My husband and I have started to argue about things that we in the past had no problems with. 

 

Is it wrong to feel the way I do?

 

 

Published in Love and Relationships

Dis-ease and illness get our bodies off balance, and that impacts on our mental and emotional health.

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Published in Spiritual Development
Sunday, 27 September 2015 14:01

Has My Surgery Affected My Judgment?

 

Question:

 

My wife left me a while ago for someone else and our divorce will be finalized soon.  I believed I had moved on, and have since met a lovely lady with whom I was very happy.

 

I have recently had hip surgery which temporarily put an end to my very active sports while I was on crutches.

 

After the surgery I broke up with my girlfriend for no reason, and tried to get my wife back (even though I knew she was already involved with another man).

 

Needless to say, I have since come to my senses and have my lovely girlfriend back with me.  Of course the divorce is going through, so that my wife and I can both move on.  I am also fully mobile again.

 

I am trying to understand why I caused such upheaval in my life with my actions.  Did the surgery cause some state of depression that made me lose my judgment?

 

 

Published in Spiritual Development
Saturday, 15 August 2015 15:43

Sexual Abuse - Podcast

How you use your own sexuality is your choice.  How you use the sexuality of others is abuse.

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Published in Love and Relationships
Sunday, 26 July 2015 15:28

Sexual Abuse

 

Question:

 

Do you think that sexuality is a source of abuse in our society?

 



Published in Love and Relationships
Sunday, 19 April 2015 15:41

Should I Stay Or Go? - Podcast

Some stagnated relationships are just a phase, while others are due to fear of letting go.

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Published in Love and Relationships
Sunday, 19 April 2015 15:22

How Do I Win My Wife Back? - Podcast

A rekindled relationship is the same as a brand-new relationship.

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Published in Love and Relationships

When you love yourself, you can go against the norm and give love to others.

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