It's Over: How to End a Relationship and Feel Good About Yourself

This book provides an alternative view on why we have relationships, and how to benefit from ending a relationship leaving you in control of your

"Sensible, practical advice that prepares the reader for the next stage of their relationship journey. Fascinating, and compelling advice offered, and definitely on the button from an incredible individual. Highly recommended." Fraser J. Hay

Elsabe Smit's Book It's Over: How to End a Relationship and Feel Good About Yourself will:

• Help you understand the purpose of your relationship.
• Explain how your partner thinks.
• Define true Love and why it is so elusive.
• Find your motive for staying in a destructive relationship
• Provide a step by step solution for ending the relationship.
• Take away your guilt and resentment.
• Help you discover the value in any relationship - even a bad one.
• Stop those nightmares and sleepless nights.
• Explain why it is OK for your relationship to end.
• Discover why you have stayed in a destructive relationship until now.
• Explain the true meaning of gratitude.
• Discover how gratitude releases you from your relationship.
• Give you a vision of your future.
• Show you how to find the strength to move on.
• Teach you to Love the face in your mirror again.

 Written by international renowned pyschic, coach and athor Elsabe Smit, this unique book will prepare you for the next stage in your own personal journey allowing you to take control and live the life you want.

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Hating another person is not a solution to anything.  Finding a more practical means of resolving a problem is much more useful.

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How you use your own sexuality is your choice.  How you use the sexuality of others is abuse.

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Question:

I love my mother but I feel she does not love me.  She has always expected me to agree with her and do as I get told, or else she would physically attack me. 

I now spend most of my time at boarding school where I have to work very hard to keep up.  I come home feeling exhausted and just want to relax and catch a breath.  However, everything ends up in a fight with my mother – and I mean a physical fight where I have to defend myself and watch out so that I don’t hurt her.

For example, today I accidentally stepped on her foot – I did not see her standing right behind me.  I apologized, but she started screaming at me and grabbed my hair, and then started hitting me.  I first started screaming as well, but I then started laughing to try and defuse the situation and also to restrain myself.

I have noticed that whenever I go home for a weekend, my hands start to shake.  How can I deal with my mother without fighting and hating her?

Question:

Do you think that sexuality is a source of abuse in our society?

Some stagnated relationships are just a phase, while others are due to fear of letting go.

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Question:

My relationship has been going nowhere for the past few months.  

My partner and I have been going through rough times for various reasons, but we are not really talking to each other. 

Should I stay or go?

An affair is a symptom of the problem you have to deal with in your relationship.

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Question:

I would like to get married one day and be happy.  I am not in a relationship at the moment. 

I have recently noticed many people around me who are all having affairs.  I am concerned that when I ever get married, my wife or I will have an affair, and that will break my heart. 

I expect my wife to be faithful to me, and I will definitely be faithful to her.  Am I unreasonable?

You are ready for a relationship when you are ready to face the fantasy as well as the nightmare.  Any relationship teaches us wisdom about ourselves.

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