You are ready for a relationship when you are ready to face the fantasy as well as the nightmare. Any relationship teaches us wisdom about ourselves.
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I feel like I need to make a choice and I am scared because I don’t know what the outcome will be. I may destroy everything I have.
I have had a very stressful life, but I am finally at peace with myself and I can now say I love myself – after much hard work.
I have met a man who is beautiful in every way. I love him dearly, warts and all, and would love to be his wife and have his child one day. I have known him for two years now.
I have two young children. My daughter is aware of him, but my son knows nothing about him. I have always kept him separate from my family, and he has never shown any interest in them. Not even my closest friends know about him. However, we love each other to bits and spend time together when we choose and enjoy every minute of it.
I have recently been fantasizing about living with him and having his child. I don’t know how to discuss this with him, because I am afraid of losing him altogether. What if he doesn’t want any changes? What if I lose him altogether?
What should I do?