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Sunday, 10 September 2017 12:38

How to Finally End a Relationship

How do you finally end a very wrong relationship that lingers with you after everyone has left but you?

How do you forgive someone who is dead?

How do you make peace with a violent co-parent after the relationship has ended?

What if someone's actions has destroyed your life and left you physically damaged?

We sometimes have relationships that end up placing us in impossible situations, where an amicable end seems to be impossible.  

However, it is always possible to move on from the most challenging situation and find the wisdom in the experience.

Tune in to The Elsabe Smit Show on Sunday 17th September live at 4 pm GMT using this link: https://www.facebook.com/AskElsabeSmit/videos  to hear more about using herbs and lesser-known edible plants.

The show covers a range of topics related to the creation process, from becoming aware of your destiny, through shaping your thoughts and actions, to learning the wisdom from your experiences and practising forgiveness.

A link to the recorded show will be posted here after the show.  If you cannot connect on the live show, diarize the date and come back later to watch the recording on Youtube

Published in Spiritual Development
Saturday, 28 May 2016 13:03

Blab Interview With Steven Healey

How do you use the Law of Attraction in your favour?

How can routine improve your spiritual life?

Must spiritual people be vegetarian?

Why do bad things happen to good people?

How can you escape from serial relationships?

Click on this link to watch the video of Steven Healey's interview with Elsabe on these and more questions relating to business, relationships and everyday life.

Published in Videos
Saturday, 21 May 2016 17:00

I Get No Support From My Family

 Question:

 

I am the only financially independent person in my family.  When I was younger I had a learning disability but I have outgrown it.  I grew up with people telling me I am slow, not smart enough and good for nothing.  Today I am studying for a degree in psychology.  I have my own home, a car, and I take care of my little son.

I work three days a week.  I have no choice other than to use my brother for child care, because I don’t earn enough to be able to afford child care.  My brother has been in and out of prison for years.  My son is a little slow on remembering colors and numbers.  My brother keeps telling me that I should give up work to take care of my son, but he has never bothered to take care of his own children.  My son asked me the other day why he is stupid.  He never heard that from me, and it could only have come from my brother.

I once published some poetry with money I saved, and all my family could do was to criticize me. They also have a lot to say about my weight (I am very slender by nature) and the way I speak. Whenever I do something positive, they tell me it won’t last.

When I get income tax money back, I help them but they ignore that and never have anything good to say about me.  They all have a history of prison and drugs and neglecting their children.  I have never done any of that.  I hate these people and don’t know how I can get away from my family.  What can I do to escape them?

 


 

Published in Love and Relationships

If a friend does not respect your boundaries, they are not a friend.

Click on this link to listen to the podcast.

 

Published in Spiritual Development
Sunday, 01 November 2015 14:18

I Share My Marriage With A Parasite

 

Question:

 

I am 19 and have gone through a number of changes recently.  Within a year I graduated from high school, got my first home and got married. 

 

 

A few months ago my husband’s best friend moved in with us – only for a few weeks, but then the weeks turned into months.  Initially it worked out fine, but now things are getting totally out of hand.

 

We have a big TV in our house.  Recently this man decided to buy a projector, put it in the middle of the lounge floor, and put up a white sheet in the middle of my house.  He did not ask for permission, and when I asked him to take the stuff out of the way, he just ignored me.

 

He also bought an additional TV so that he and my husband could play games together, each using their own TV.  I just got ignored in all of this, as if I don’t exist.

 

My husband works day shifts and his friend works nights.  This friend decides when the air conditioning should be switched on during the day, and he takes control of the TV all day because he does not like my choice of shows.

 

Before this man moved in with us, we coped financially, but now we often overspend because just the food he eats cost more than the minimal rent he pays.

 

Our bills for internet use, phone and electricity have gone up.  He claims that he cannot pay more rent, but he spends cash on computer games, brand-new state-of-the-art TV sets and other gadgets that are taking over my house. 

 

I like to keep things neat and tidy, but it is impossible with this man making a mess all day and never cleaning up after himself.

 

My husband and I have started to argue about things that we in the past had no problems with. 

 

Is it wrong to feel the way I do?

 

 

Published in Love and Relationships
Saturday, 15 August 2015 15:43

Sexual Abuse - Podcast

How you use your own sexuality is your choice.  How you use the sexuality of others is abuse.

Click on this link to listen to the podcast.

Published in Love and Relationships
Sunday, 26 July 2015 15:28

Sexual Abuse

 

Question:

 

Do you think that sexuality is a source of abuse in our society?

 



Published in Love and Relationships
Sunday, 19 April 2015 15:41

Should I Stay Or Go? - Podcast

Some stagnated relationships are just a phase, while others are due to fear of letting go.

Click on this link to listen to the podcast.

To read more about dealing with relationship issues:

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Published in Love and Relationships
Sunday, 19 April 2015 14:39

Sexuality and Betrayal - Podcast

Where people jump from one sexual relationship to another, the subscript often relates to a life script of betrayal and rejection.

Click on this link to listen to the podcast.

To read more about dealing with relationship issues:

Click here if you are in the UK.

Click here if you are outside the UK.

 

Published in Love and Relationships
Sunday, 19 April 2015 10:29

Should I Stay Or Go?

Question:

My relationship has been going nowhere for the past few months.  

My partner and I have been going through rough times for various reasons, but we are not really talking to each other. 

Should I stay or go?

Published in Love and Relationships
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