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Dis-ease and illness get our bodies off balance, and that impacts on our mental and emotional health.

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Published in Spiritual Development
Sunday, 27 September 2015 14:01

Has My Surgery Affected My Judgment?

 

Question:

 

My wife left me a while ago for someone else and our divorce will be finalized soon.  I believed I had moved on, and have since met a lovely lady with whom I was very happy.

 

I have recently had hip surgery which temporarily put an end to my very active sports while I was on crutches.

 

After the surgery I broke up with my girlfriend for no reason, and tried to get my wife back (even though I knew she was already involved with another man).

 

Needless to say, I have since come to my senses and have my lovely girlfriend back with me.  Of course the divorce is going through, so that my wife and I can both move on.  I am also fully mobile again.

 

I am trying to understand why I caused such upheaval in my life with my actions.  Did the surgery cause some state of depression that made me lose my judgment?

 

 

Published in Spiritual Development

Our parents are our greatest teachers in ways that we often fail to understand.

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Published in Love and Relationships
Monday, 25 May 2015 18:04

I Might As Well Have No Parents

Question:

I have to tell you the story of my life so that you can understand my current situation.

My mother was fifteen when I was born.  Shortly after that my dad broke up with her.  My mom told me later that my dad was abusive towards both of us, but I cannot remember anything about that. 

We then went to live with my grandmother, who told me lots of stories and always smelt warm and lovely.  My mom had a nice boyfriend who always played with me and took me to the park.

Then my grandmother died in an accident.  My mom and her boyfriend started to argue (I was four at the time) and she tried to kill herself twice.  She was already drinking heavily and was declared an unfit mother.

I then had to live with my dad and his wife (between my parents I have lived in about 15 countries over the past 17 years).  They are both alcoholics and unpleasant people at the best of times.  My dad used to beat me whenever I spoke about my mom.  His wife did stuff to me and when I tried to complain to my dad, he accused me of making up stories and trying to take his wife away from him – when all I wanted was for her to leave me alone.

My dad told me if I complained about her or him, welfare workers will take their time and investigate everything before taking me away, and that while they do their investigation, he would make my life hell.

I moved back in with my mom when I was 11, and even as a child I was shocked at the state she was in.  She is anorexic and depressed and self-mutilates.  She never sleeps – instead she would wake up, drink too much, and pass out, only to wake up and start drinking again.  She tells me just about every day that she wants to kill herself.  I have spent the past six years talking her out of it almost daily and I am tired.

 

It got to a point where I started drinking with her, because if I did not she would blame me for who she is and tell me that I am looking down on her.

Published in Love and Relationships
Sunday, 19 April 2015 15:22

How Do I Win My Wife Back? - Podcast

A rekindled relationship is the same as a brand-new relationship.

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Published in Love and Relationships

When you love yourself, you can go against the norm and give love to others.

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Published in Love and Relationships
Sunday, 12 April 2015 17:02

How Do I Win My Wife Back?

Question:

My wife left me for another man.

How do I get her back? 

Published in Love and Relationships

Question:

I want to leave my marriage and my children for the sake of my own sanity.  

I have never been maternal, and I feel that if I stay in a marriage that is smothering me with obligations and expectations, I will go mad. 

I have thought about this for a long time and done much soul-searching, and this is the right decision for me and them.

How do I get my husband to allow me access to the children when I leave him?

Published in Love and Relationships
Sunday, 22 February 2015 15:35

My Mother Is Having An Affair - Podcast

Don't judge the actions of others that you don't understand.  Rather observe, learn and decide what you want to apply in your life.  You may want to change your mind later based on your own experience.

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Published in Love and Relationships
Sunday, 22 February 2015 15:23

My Mother Is Having An Affair

Question:

I am in my late teens.  A year ago I was at the airport with my mum, having just arrived from a long flight into this country.  My dad was not with us, because he could not get a visa.

At the airport I used my mum’s phone to send a text, when a text came in for her.  I opened her text and saw it was all about love, but not from my dad – from her college professor!  I did not say anything but I was shocked.  I thought that that was the end of it because he was still in our home country where my dad also was.

A few days later I heard her speak to him over the phone and realized he had also moved and was living close to me and my mum.  I heard them arrange to meet, but she never said anything about it.

I know they are meeting regularly, and I know my dad knows nothing about this.  Even if my dad does know, he cannot do anything because he still does not have a visa.

What shocks me most is that want my mum does is against our culture and religion, but it seems like she does not care. 

I don’t know what to do about this.

Published in Love and Relationships

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